{"id":16308,"date":"2023-01-02T21:07:09","date_gmt":"2023-01-02T21:07:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.icebreakerexecutive.com\/?p=16308"},"modified":"2023-01-02T21:07:09","modified_gmt":"2023-01-02T21:07:09","slug":"piniccio-how-foolish-i-was-when-i-was-a-puppet-trauma-vs-liberation-from-unconscious","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/winningthinking.co.uk\/?p=16308","title":{"rendered":"Pinocchio how foolish i was when i was a puppet, trauma vs liberation from unconscious"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>awareness of this puppet master &#8211; slackens the strings<\/p>\n<p>thanks but can handle it friend vs master<\/p>\n<p>process of awareness<\/p>\n<p>source of suffering relieve suffering<\/p>\n<p>it vs reality<\/p>\n<p>distortion &#8211; attempt to escape the pain &#8211; addicted to things &#8211; external<\/p>\n<p>what does your addiction do for you &#8211; why not have that<\/p>\n<p>cost of not being ourselves to survive<\/p>\n<p>disconnect from ourselves costs us<\/p>\n<p>authenticity benefits outweigh not<\/p>\n<p>agency takes responsibility for the interpretation, agency makes decisions<\/p>\n<p>key shifts in psychology<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>normal society is bad for us not good<\/li>\n<li>link trauma and physical\/mental health<\/li>\n<li>education and trauma<\/li>\n<li>criminals are traumatized &#8211; treat them<\/li>\n<li>parenting &#8211; 1st 3 years template is right<\/li>\n<li>just have &#8220;to be&#8221; without conditions<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>education depends on healthy brain development &#8211; curious mastery and learning are human needs<\/p>\n<p>capacity to be peaceful without doing anything<\/p>\n<div class=\"video-shortcode\"><iframe title=\"Gabor Mate: The Childhood Lie That\u2019s Ruining All Of Our Lives. | E193\" width=\"1778\" height=\"1000\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/uPup-1pDepY?start=3773&#038;feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>awareness of this puppet master &#8211; slackens the strings thanks  [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[38,15,36,34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16308","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-free-speech","category-management-development","category-political-correctness","category-psychology"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/winningthinking.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16308","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/winningthinking.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/winningthinking.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/winningthinking.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/winningthinking.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16308"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/winningthinking.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16308\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/winningthinking.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16308"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/winningthinking.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16308"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/winningthinking.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16308"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}